Principles for Youth Ministry – John Bosco

Here Don John Bosco provides some guiding principles for youth ministry.  He had legendary success in evangelizing and teaching young boys on the streets of Turin Italy during the days of the Industrial Revolution.  In a day when harsh corporal punishment was the culturally norm, Don Bosco imitated instead the gentleness of Christ and produced amazing results.

First of all, if we wish to appear concerned about the true happiness of our foster children and if we would move them to fulfil their duties, you must never forget that you are taking the place of the parents of these beloved young people. I have always labored lovingly for them, and carried out my priestly duties with zeal. And the whole Salesian society has done this with me.

Don Bosco on Youth Ministry

My sons, in my long experience very often I had to be convinced of this great truth. It is easier to become angry than to restrain oneself, and to threaten a boy than to persuade him. Yes, indeed, it is more fitting to be persistent in punishing our own impatience and pride than to correct the boys. We must be firm but kind, and be patient with them.

I give you as a model the charity of Paul which he showed to his new converts. They often reduced him to tears and entreaties when he found them lacking docility and even opposing his loving efforts.

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Patience with the Young

See that no one finds you motivated by impetuosity or wilfullness. It is difficult to keep calm when administering punishment, but this must be done if we are to keep ourselves from showing off our authority or spilling out our anger.

Let us regard those boys over whom we have some authority as our own sons. Let us place ourselves in their service. Let us be ashamed to assume an attitude of superiority. Let us not rule over them except for the purpose of serving them better.

This was the method that Jesus used with the apostles. He put up with their ignorance and roughness and even their infidelity. He treated sinners with a kindness and affection that caused some to be shocked, others to be scandalized, and still others to hope for God’s mercy. And so he bade us to be gentle and humble of heart.

Gentleness in Youth Ministry

They are our sons, and so in correcting their mistakes we must lay aside all anger and restrain it so firmly that it is extinguished entirely.

There must be no hostility in our minds, no contempt in our eyes, no insult on our lips. We must use mercy for the present and have hope for the future, as is fitting for true fathers who are eager for real correction and improvement.

In serious matters it is better to beg God humbly than to send forth a flood of words that will only offend the listeners and have no effect on those who are guilty.

This post is an excerpt from a letter by St. John Bosco (Epistolario, Torino 1959, 4, 201-203).  It appears in the Roman Office of Readings for the liturgical memorial of Don Bosco on January 31.

Banner/featured image Don Bosco la Torino in 1880 by an unknown photographer. Public domain.

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